Dating Tips

Be Safe - Feel Safe!

Couplelizer is a social dating website for those who are searching for real-life dating experiences only. Our top priority is to ensure that you have a safe and fun experience. Please take your time to read our safety dating tips and, of course, always use your own good judgement! Only you can be responsible for your personal dating experience.

Always Meet in Public

All meetings should be held in public places. You will feel and be safer when surrounded by other people. Actually, you should be suspicious of your date's intentions if he/she offers to meet in private ( e.g. in his/her apartment, house etc.)

Use Your Own Transportation

Always use your own transportation to and from the date. Even if the person you're meeting volunteers to pick you up, do not get into a vehicle with someone you don’t know and trust, especially if it’s the first meeting.

Tell a Friend or Family Members

Before going on a date, tell a friend or family member. Make sure they know where you're going and ask them to check in with you later. Usually, this is the best way to keep your family members and, of course yourself, calm.

Use Online Chat

When you will have an active date, you will be able to chat online for free. Use this time to get more information about your date and ask questions - it will help to know him/her better. Never send your financial data, such as bank accounts, passwords or other sensitive information.

Be Smart and Suspicious

Only you are responsible for your personal dating experience. Trust your instincts, use your own good judgement and then have fun with the right people! Be aware of anyone online (or not) who: talks about “destiny” or “fate”, asks for your address where to send flowers or gifts, claims to be from U.S. but currently abroad, makes a declaration of love from an early stage (when love generally happens over time), asks for money, etc. Always remember, if someone seems too good to be true, they probably are.

Personal & Financial Information

Don’t share your personal information (e.g. email, phone, home address etc.) until you feel comfortable doing so. If you are travelling over a longer distance for your date, keep your hotel information confidential. Furthermore, never give away your financial information (bank info, credit card etc.) and never send money to any people you meet online!

Be Careful with Alcohol

Don’t drink too much (not more than a glass of wine) when you are on a date with someone you do not know well. Otherwise, you will not only introduce yourself badly, but you will also become more vulnerable.

Always Report Suspicious Behavior

If any member behaves or treats you in an abusive way, block this person (use Block buttons on the page) and report the behavior to Couplelizer administration immediately. You can email us in the contact us page or use the report buttons that you will see in many places on our website. Only you can make Couplelizer a safe and positive community by reporting any suspicious activity, behavior or content to us as quickly as possible.